Sunday, November 6, 2011

Snow Roses

Today at lunch one of my friends showed the group of us a picture of snow decorating her sister's rose bushes in Nebraska when it snowed on November 1. After we all moaned about snow already arriving in Nebraska so soon, we then began to joke about "snow roses" because the Nebraska roses
were still blooming
when the snow came.

I don't have lots of nice, hardy rose bushes, but for the last several weeks, in my back and front yard I've planted what could be considered
a symbolic
type of "snow rose"--the pansy.

Google says of the pansy: "Pansies are winter hardy in zones 4-8. They can survive light freezes and short periods of snow cover." I've seen pansies pressed to the ground after a hard frost or a deep snow. It looked like the little things were flatter than a flitter (flitter defined as "fine metallic fragments, especially as used for ornamentation"--Dictionary.com).  It looked like they were done for. 
 But "ta-daaaa" they arose and showed off their beautiful colors again.



I have planted pansies in whiskey barrels, in ceramic pots, in strawberry pots, and in beds circling my Bradford Pare tree because I want color throughout this winter. When all is steel gray or dead-grass brown, I want to see a little splash of color when I come home after work or when I look out into my yard while pouring my
first morning cup of coffee.


Working in the yard, in the dirt, is therapy for me. But it's also spiritual. Around this time of year, grief seems to have it's way with me. The precious holidays of Thanksgiving and Christmas are now like terrorist holidays. They threaten my emotional, mental, and spiritual safety all because of acute loss and grief during this time. My heart, mind, and soul go on Red Alert during this time.
And often, when such high alert is activated 
be it in the world, in a nation,
or in a single woman's soul,
it is very hard to
quietly,
peacefully
sit down and pray.
Lately I've not done well at praying.


But when I dig, plant, and pat the dirt 
with my hands,
when I get on my knees
and lower myself to ground level,
when I mix potting soil and garden dirt
in my wheel barrow
like I'm folding egg whites into sugar,
when I design the flower pots and beds--
"this yellow one here and this purple one here and this blue one here and this white one here" --
in so many ways it's a physical mode of prayer
and praise and peace
offered to God
during my season of loss, pain, and grief.


Maybe that's why I've gone crazy
planting pansies everywhere
during the last several weeks.
Maybe it's a way of prayer for me during these holiday months when my normal path of prayer is
  stymied, blocked, and darkened. 
Maybe God hears my prayer through garden tools, dirt, and little snow roses.


When most people are putting up the tools
and winterizing their yards,
I'm out here planting up a storm
in the midst of my own personal storm.

Hear my prayers O Lord.


1 comment:

  1. I love this essay, Kay. Flowers are at the top of my "things I love" list, also - including pansies. I also love the jonquils of early spring. My thoughts and prayers are with you through the holiday season and my home is your home - any time! You can even bring Zach...would love for you to bring Zach! Prayers, Pat

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